"Love YOU first. You are the priority in your life. How you love you, how you see you, how you treat you is going to set the stage and issue the invitation that’ll draw other people in to love you. I would say the top 3 mistakes [people] make when they’re looking for love is, looking for someone outside of themselves to make them happy. Number two would be blocking intimacy. You can be intimate whether you have a love life or not. And three, doubting that they can ever really have the love they desire. The first step towards loving yourself would be looking at everything about you—and being OK with it. If you’re crazy, be okay with it. If you’re skinny, be okay with it. If you’re fat, be okay with it. If you’re short, tall, Black, White, straight, gay—just learn to be okay with who you are, AS you are, right now."
"I love that moment in the night when you wake up and you’re not exactly sure what time it is but you know you have to get up for work in the morning and you don’t want to look at the clock because you’re scared that it will say that it’s two minutes from the the time you set your alarm for. But then you can’t help yourself and you look at the clock and you have four hours of sleep left."